i memang suka nak buat conflict kan! eh yelah, i sedar diri especially lepas anonymous sorang ni sound i kate i suka nak buat conflict tak pasal2. ahaha, boleh panggil i pencetus conflict la kalau camtu wahahaha.
ok lari topic, padahal nak ckp psl daily school vs boarding school. before that let me make everyone clear that i come from both background, i was in daily coed school from form 1 till form 3 and then went to single sex boarding school in form 4 till i finished secondary school. so i consider myself as someone who is pretty much aware of the pros and cons of both schools.
i wanna raise an issue, "budak sbp/mrsm ade mentality kampung and kasar". that was a statement made by some daily school students after mingling with those people from boarding school in their unis. and to my surprise, there is such thing as 'diorang budak asrama so i tak campur, tak boleh masuk blablabla' and 'i tak mingle ok dengan budak daily school' even after entering unis. really weh? why soo laa? adakah korang sgt tak boleh masuk dengan each other? adakah budak daily school terlalu urban and budak asrama terlalu kampung? wahahahha.
honestly, i had the same perception about boarding school students when i first entered boarding school. well i dunno the exact definition or what does they really meant by 'mentality kampung' but i'm guessing it's their taste la, contohnya macam taste in music, taste in clothing, the way they speak, their lifestyle, the places they hang out etc tc. and apparently, to them, being kasar is also perangai kampung.
is there really any difference? okay honestly, i was not used of using aku-engkau back in lower form. i was more comfortable using kite-awak and i-u and my way of speaking pun was a bit decent. and when i entered boarding school, everyone started using aku-kau and some of them memang a bit kasar la but well, i didn't think it was a big problem so i adapted to that slowly. but hey, it's not that we cannot speak nicely and politely. so mcm, whats the big deal kan? i can switch myself from using i-u or kita-awak or whatever and talk really politely,gedikly and ayu to using aku-kau and talk a bit, err, well, selambe? but well, comparing my daily school and my boarding school, that was quite a major difference and i really do switch my way of speaking when i hang out with my lower form friends and my upper form friends. i dunno about other daily school though.
mentality kampung? well well. look whos talking. i guess people yg soooo urban mmg takkan boleh masuk dengan those people from outside KL/selangor kot? yes there are such people yg perasan urban habis just because they live in tempat konon best. the moment they know u're not from these 2 areas, u're out of the circle. seriously, kenapa tak nak belajar kenal orang?
oh yes, u can't expect all the students in boarding school come from KL and selangor (though mine had a majority of the students from these places) so u can't expect students semua ada mentality KL atau mentality klang valley (whatever thats supposed to mean) of course la these people from perlis ada their own way of thinking, and those from kelantan and terengganu ada this kind of mentality and those from sabah sarawak pulak mcm ni. mingle, kenal, and absorb apa yang baik ignore apa yg tak baik, tak boleh ke dol? (kan dah keluar bahasa kasar asrama aku)
i'm proud to say that i have friends from all over malaysia, dari perlis smpai ke sabah sarawak, semua pun i baik. memang la some ada mentality diorang yg mmg tak kena dengan i, byk ah jugak kekadang, pasal baju, pergaulan, the way you celebrate something, music, etc etc, tapi kau sengih kambing sudeyh bila diorang express opinion diorang yg tak berapa nak kena dengan kau tu. u can't say they're wrong and u're right, because to them, u're wrong and they're right. so, susah nak terima? respect each other sudeyh!
contoh ; it's your birthday and u're planning to celebrate it at an expensive restaurant, nak buat 7 hari 7 malam, tapi dijamin free from alcohol dan babi-babian, sekali ada minah dari ____ kata 'babe, buat ape awak abis duit celebrate mahal2 padahal celebrate bday jer which means awak setahun lagi dekat dgn kematian, kan lebih elok buat doa selamat, kan babe?'
ha, kau nak sentap? nak kata minah tu conservative, kampung, tak fun segala? lepas dia ckp camtu terus kau canang satu uni kata minah tu blardy kampung dasar budak asrama i dun wanna be friend with u. like dat one ka? lepas tu terus keluar general statement "budak asrama ni mentality kampung" pergh. tak pasal2 aku terpaksa terasa dan tersentap, sebab aku pon separuh asrama gak, wahahahha. ok tak, buat ape aku nak sentap, tak sesensitive itu utk sentap.
just, i was driven to write about this sebab mcm tak patut kot ckp orang tu mentality kampung lagi2 ckp budak asrama ni mentality kampung. apa mentality kau terlalu bandar ke? apa mentality yg terlampau bandar tu baik2 belaka ke? apakah kau rasa duduk kl, subang, hartamas, klang, damansara, pulau penang, johor bahru dan sekolah dekat sekolah harian tu terlalu lavish dan urban dan mentality korang sgt upper east side sampai suka suki buat statement orang lain yg duduk asrama adalah sgt kampung dan conservative? ni mmg conflict besar nih wahahaha, nantikan sambungannya dalam entry seterusnya. (ayat nak berunsur mempromote kan!)
terpakse sambung nanti la, i ngantuk, esok nak kene bangun pagi beli pasar tuk barang2 dapur rumah. pergh, ckp mcm laki orang kena paksa ngan bini pegi pasar (err my dad la tu hahaha) ok, esok la sambung! daaa.
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