Tuesday, July 28, 2009

platonic love : why high school lovers don't make it to the end?


falling in love during high school is not uncommon. we can simply find these school kids walk hand in hand with their gf/bf after school. they really walk their heads up - proud to have someone they can call girlfriend or boyfriend, at such a young age. yeah, kids nowadays.

high school is full of dramas don't u think so? that's because most of us are going through our rebellious phase at this age. having a steady boyfriend/girlfriend at this age can really add up more spices to ur dramas. whether it is good or bad, it really depends on u.

most of the time after finishing high school, u'll find the same person walking hand in hand with a totally different partner. yes, the sweetest couple in school finally broke up. but why?

they used to understand each other more than their sibblings do. they used to do fun stuffs together. they used to be with each other through high and low. they used to do everything together. and there wasn't a single sign showing that they are not meant for each other. everything was perfect, back then. and yet, they broke up, after so many years.

this is so common. i've seen a lot of my friends, who have been dating for years and years (some of em even date up till 7 years) and still, they don't make it to the end. they say, make up don't break up, but some relationship just won't work after some time, and u just can't trace the mistake.

is it not love that they were sharing all this while? well yeah, it was love, purely love. just my humble point of view, i think high school lovers are meant to learn from each other, not just about love, but about everything, about friendship, responsibilities and everything about life so that u are more prepared to face the world in the future.

the laughter u shared and the tears u shed, those two are the platform that makes a stronger you. some people might say, throw away all the memories u have with ur high school lover and start over a new life. to me, u can still start fresh without throwing away anything. keep those memories somewhere, because u might want to thank him/her for making u so much stronger today, for making u a better person tomorrow, and yes, for that precious time spent together.

u might hate him/her now, but hatred will bring u nowhere. there are reasons why they don't make it to ur future. there are reasons why they are history. and most importantly, there are reasons why u met him/her some time ago. there are always reasons. so don't cry because it's over, but smile because it happened.

sometimes, it takes u numbers before u can meet THE ONE. well, don't take the previous relationship as ur love or first love or whatever, instead, take it as a lesson. now it sounds better right? and make sure u learn ur lesson :) life is the real teacher anyway.

p/s : some people are not meant to be ur lovers, but they are meant to teach u what life is worth. be thankful to those people.

when u say life is a bitch, that means, life has taught u so many things. and when u meet a bitch, don't hate her, get to know her, a bitch too can teach u something :)

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

ira..
nice entry..love d words...
why u clash with yr highschool boyfriend?
u sweet sgt22 dulu i pun igt lg die ikut ambik result pmr spm u kan..
juzz tak sangkelah korg boleh clash..
yelah couple pun lame 5 tahun kan..atau lebih...
mayb u ade sbb u tersendiri....
tp u sweet la dgn die dulu22..
as u mention,just take it as pengajaran hidup ok....
boyfie u skrg pun macam okey je..
i hope u and yr boyfie now berkekalan hingga ke akhir hayat....

nadd said...

erk sapa anonymous? yes ira. i like dis post! hehe. syg kau. jumpa ok!

N

IRA said...

anonymous : who r u? thanks for the wish, i hope for the same thing.

nadd : hahah yeah! jmpe, very soon! tatau weh sapekah!

Anonymous said...

sengal pnye anonymous!!..

haziQah said...

i suka la baca ur words memang sangat best sperti yang diakui oleh commentor2 seblum ni.rly touching

about da break up of the most popolar couple kat skola dulu sy x mahu comment
tp rasana cm ramai pulai yg bdak skola kita couple lepas habis skola kot.cam sweet je he

kalau da jodoh tak ke mana, kalau bukan jodoh couple lama2 pun tak kan jadi, dan kalau baru kenal sebulan pun dah namanya jodoh tetap akan bersatu ;)

IRA said...

haziqah! i so agree! lame or not is not the main thing here, ade orang tu baru knal seminggu dah kawin tapi bahagia je kan? ;p tp ade orang dh couple 7 tahun pun break so cam same je kan..

btw yeah, ramai gak yg couple after abis skola..heheh hope they'll last!

Anonymous said...

i sorry dont mean to campur tangan dalam life u...
i wish u all the best ira...
dengan siape pun boyfie u...
i doakan u happy22 selalu..