Friday, March 6, 2009

guys are so typical

guys are so typical.

when a guy wants to get to know a girl, he'll be the most most most gentle ever guy living on this earth. he'll do just anything to please the girl. he'll walk u home and walk u everywhere u wanna go, he'll ask for some friends to lend him some money so that he can go for a date and he'll tell u that u look beautiful though u have pimples all over ur face. i'm not saying that these are all wrong things to do. i mean, if he's willing to, why not?

but for most of the guys, these things are temporary. to me, it's okay if a guy doesn't want to walk me home if later he needs to walk double or triple the distance to reach his home. and i won't be complaining if my guy doesn't have money to go for a date, i mean, dating isn't all about the money, it's about spending time together. i don't mind if we have to buy some food at pasar malam because we don't have money. and obviously, he doesn't have to bluff about me looking all beautiful when i am at my worst, i really don't mind. but the point is, why some guys really work their ass out to get a girl, and when he finally get the girl, he'll start turning into a jerk?

some guys treat their girlfriends like shit. this is a simple example. u tell me, is it appropriate to call ur girlfriend by some names like 'bitch', 'bodo', 'sial' and 'murahan' when u guys are arguing and when things get better, u simply say 'sorry' and u'll start calling her 'sayang', 'baby', 'honey', 'bucuk' etc etc. oh senangnya? bila marah panggil 'bitch' bila sayang panggil 'baby' what the tut?before couple berani pulak janji 'i takkan hurt u mcm ur ex-boyfriend buat tu, i jaga u baik2 k syg' tapi lepas couple kau sama je mcm ex-bf perempuan tu what the tut?

that's just an example. there are many more. i have some friends who got beaten by their long-term boyfriends. and some boyfriends who really take control of their girlfriends' life to the extend that she can't befriend with a guy at all. i have some friends whose boyfriends are damn stingy that he doesn't even wanna spend a cent for his girlfriend.

they say the longer the relationship, the stronger is the love. but from what i observe, the longer the relationship, the higher is the tendency for u to take ur girlfriend/boyfriend for granted. that's because u think u've got it all. u think u're not gonna lose ur girlfriend because she loves u so much and that she needs u all her life so u'll start treating her like shit. u'll start to lose respect. yeah the truth hurts but that's what happening most of the time.

why? why do people change so easily? one day u can be so angelic so sweet so kind so gentleman and another day u can turn into a real b*stard who doesn't know how to appreciate people. oh yes i forgot, we're all actors and life is the stage. we're all acting in this cruel world. and some acting doesn't have any moral values and humanity at all.

it's sad to see some relationship breaks into pieces. some used to be the sweetest ever, but end up with a dreadful misery. if u're one of those who are going through the same thing, good luck and be strong! losing a jerk is better than keeping him for the rest of ur life seriously. sumpah tak rugi langsung kalau hilang lelaki tak guna yes there's really nothing to lose babe so be strong and move on!

oh this entry is a reflection of what's going on around me. of course, not every guy is a jerk, it just happened to me that i know a lot of these jerks.

p/s : u really don't know what u have until u lose it. TAKE IT FROM ME! *cube teka ayat sape??!!* hahahahahahahaha

11 comments:

adia_anarris said...

guys are so unpredictable..
they are always acting like dat..
i know these people pretty well..
and of course,
i do pray that i wont stumble upon this kind of guy some day!

LuTaNiA said...

this is so true lahh..
couldn't agree more.
oh, hye btw. :)

AHMAD HELMI said...

bkan nk komen ape..
just nk jawab soklan last tu..
ayat Ramesh..haha
struggle nk jawab..

... said...

'they say the longer the relationship, the stronger is the love. but from what i observe, the longer the relationship, the higher is the tendency for u to take ur girlfriend/boyfriend for granted. that's because u think u've got it all. u think u're not gonna lose ur girlfriend because she loves u so much and that she needs u all her life so u'll start treating her like shit.'

sampai dh tak sanggup nk go thru da same thng again..*sigh*

~riena~ said...
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~riena~ said...

OMG!!!..WHAT uve said in this post is freakin true!!..
thnks to ue..it all had been spilt out..pe yg terbuku di dlm hati...:)
girls understsnd better..huhu not to be bias...but its the truth..huhu
cant help but being emotional tho..
haha....

IRA said...

aida : yes yes let's pray that we won't get stucked with this kinda ppl!

lutania : yeah thanks :) hye to u too!

butet : ye kau mmg hebat tu mmg ayat dr ramesh kesayangan hahaha

nadia : yeah baby! i know u best ;p

riena : hehe that's what i feel too! perhaps u can write ur own version of condemng this kind of ppl too and see what points im missing! ;)

sRuGgle!! said...

u noe wut ira, it is pretty true tho 'bout some guys...when sayang he calls you baby, sayang, but when there's little mistakes or caught with other girls he'll call u bodoh, sial, bangang,bitch...n later try pujuk you with sayang and manje again..(2nd,3rd chance??)

as we girls,we do love our guys so much and try our best to safe our r/ship..but believe me no point at all!..make a move girls!!if blom kawin da maki2 and nak angkat tangan..sorryla....lucky me i've got nothing to struggle anymore..

so make a move!!you'll find better guy..

IRA said...

aina! hahahah sangat! and these guys sgt pathetic okay i feel like tanam diorang alive! hahahah kalau tak dapat bury them alive if dpt sepak at their weakest point pon sedap hahahaha

yup lucky me too :D

julu said...

boys...akan anggap gurl die tu la manusia paling cantik kat dunia walaupn jerawat penuh kat muka.. y??..sbb kat mata die,jerawat tu la yg wat gurl die comel..kulit itam n kasar tu la yg wat die jatuh ati..

gurls akan anggap boys ni typically..but boys very2 difficult to understand apa yg sebetulnya dlm ati gurl tu.. gurl kat mulut say yes..but dlm hati. very laudly they want say NOOO..

p/s..x stuju kalo bf snggup pnggil gf die bitch..

IRA said...

julu, ahahah agak betul!