Saturday, April 18, 2009

own happiness vs the loved one's happiness

which one is more important?

each and everyone of us has the right for our own happiness right? but when ur happiness takes away someone else's happiness, what would u do? would u put urself first? or would u put urself down for someone else?

what would u do?

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

depends..

Shahril Shuhairi said...

Life is too short even for ourself...
with the future still uncertain, its a big gamble to sacrifice ur happiness for others..
Take it from me Ira,
Get ur own happiness first...coz only when u're happy, then u can trully bring happiness to others.. Besides, if others can't afford to see u happy for urself, it shows they don't really deserve ur devotion..right? Take it from me k.

However, some decisions are just not that easy....kan?

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nadd said...

tough choice! but i'd rather choose my own happiness kot. bukan sebab selfish. tapi sebab kita nak hidup dengan orang tu sampai mati. [selfish ke tu? whatever lah kan]

tak kan nak hidup for other ppl? am i right?

heart u,
N

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ad_nin said...

awat sume komen kene delete ni?...

Nana Suhaili said...

ira, at the end of the day, what really matters the most is our happiness.

IRA said...

anonymous : depends on?

shahril : i so agree! only when we're happy then we can make someone else truly happy kan? thanks shahril! really like it!

nad : hidup for other ppl really sucks laaa!

denin : ive no idea

nana : yes nana...but part of my happiness is to see others happy...

reena said...

hmm. for me, i'll choose for my own happiness. yeahh. b'coz, usually i'll sacrife everything for my frens, now. it's payback time:)hahaha.

Anonymous said...

beng said depends on situation u got..

IRA said...

reena : if u're confident enough ur happiness is the everlasting happiness, why not riteee?

anonymous : okay! :)

i know reply ni sangat lambat. hahahah.